own this moment.
Be fully present. Help them focus on what needs attention right now.
Pick the starting point
- Nothing urgent? Give them the choice: “Where do you feel like you can start?”
- Too overwhelmed to choose? “Let’s start with this one.”
- Starting small helps them build momentum for the more complex issue.
When time matters
- Calm but firm: “I need you fully focused on this. We can deal with the rest later, but I need you with me.”
- Use “we” and “let’s.” Keep the attention on the issue in front of you. No blame.